Merry Christmas 2025

I am so happy to wish the readers of LFTM a very sincere merry Christmas.

My sister has sent gifts wrapped in whale paper — my Christmas theme of wildlife.

While we do have some decorations up this year the house is a bit unsettled as we are gutting the kitchen little by little and hope to begin remantling in spring.

The future kitchen will have color and storage.

Once again Charlie was the musician for 2 church services on Christmas eve at a church we’ve recently begun to attend.

If Charlie shows up there will be music.

The light shines through the darkness, and the darkness can never extinguish it. John 1:5

Look for the light.

Merry Christmas from Charlie, Jo, and Dash!

Jo

A Walk Across the Bridge

For a long time I have been contemplating walking across the Chesapeake Bay Bridge (4.3 miles) which is allowed once a year in November as part of a 10K (6.2 miles) race.

The Chesapeake Bay Bridge is 4.3 miles across from shore to shore. (Our view from a cruise ship.)

Then this past February I fell about 14 feet from a ladder directly on my back.  I didn’t think I’d ever be able to walk any distances again. Finally at the end of August I began easy walking everyday and building up stamina until I believed I could at least cross the bridge under my own power.

My goal was to get to the high point of the bridge.

Just before we left for our cruise to Canada I signed us both up to join the estimated 18,000 participants who would run or walk that day.

I was going to walk not RUN!

The night before the event I received this notice:

Hi Jo,

We regret to inform you due to the forecast and a higher than acceptable chance of inclement weather, the Bay Bridge Run has been canceled and will not take place as scheduled on Sunday, November 9, 2025. THE EVENT WILL NOT BE RESCHEDULED. During inclement weather, the Maryland Transportation Authority (MDTA) does not implement two-way traffic operations (one lane in each direction) on the Bay Bridge’s westbound span. As such, the eastbound span cannot be closed for the event. Please be assured that this decision was not taken lightly; however, the safety of the bridge’s customers, employees, and runners are the MDTA’s priority.

This is my official shirt and race bib.

I was not very happy.  I’m not sure I have it in me to train for the walk next year.

I was the oldest member of the Chesapeake Cars and Coffee Team.

However I did meet some really nice people.

Jo

101 in 1001 #7: A Fresh Start

I have been making 101 tasks in 1001 days lists since 2009.  I have never totally finished one but I have made more progress than I might have done without the list as a guide. Now I am starting on list #7 which begins August 2, 2025 and runs until April 29, 2028.  It’s been difficult coming up with 101 new things to see and do.

In past adventures we ballooned over the Eastern Shore of Maryland.

My 6th list began November 4, 2022 and ran until August 1, 2025. My 5th list began February 6, 2020. It ended on November 3, 2022. Fourth list started May 10, 2017 (first list ended 11/13/2011, second list 8/11/2014, third list 5/9/2017) Black is the color for original post. Completed items are in blue.  Pink items are plans.  Red items are cautions due to the situations out of my control.

  1. Buy a car.

    Betty is still running strong after 10 years but she won’t last forever.

  2. Start taking RMD in 2026.
  3. Visit Wallops Flight facility.

    Charlie and I experienced the last shuttle launch at Cape Canaveral. Hoping to find something exciting at Wallops Island in Virginia.

  4. Send 10 handwritten cards.
  5. Build frame for full length mirror.

    A frame should stabilize this mirror on the back of a bedroom door.

  6. Throw away or donate 30 things and don’t replace them.
  7. Organize trip to a Caribbean island.
  8. Redesign kitchen.

    The kitchen needs a new layout, new cabinets, and new appliances.

  9. Picnic on the sandbar.

    The sandbar is a short boat ride from our dock.

  10. Refinish tall dresser.

    My grandmother’s dresser might look great in navy blue.

  11. Make a photo album of Mommie.
  12. Bird tour at Blackwater National Wildlife Refuge.
  13. Night Sky Tour at Blackwater National Wildlife Refuge.
  14. Refinish green vanity.

    I’m not sure of the direction in which to go but the dressing table is getting dilapidated looking — needs a zhuzh.

  15. Read 30 books.
  16. Attend 5 concerts.
  17. London theatre trip.

    We enjoyed theatre in the West End on our last trip to London.

  18. Tour Bureau of Engraving and Printing.
  19. Go dog sledding.

    I’ve done extensive research on just where to go dogsledding.

  20. Increase net worth by 25%.
  21. Zipline in rainforest.
  22. Parasail or hang glide or skydive.

    This looks like something I would really like — just have to convince Charlie.

  23. Work on side hustle.
  24. NYC/Broadway/Cabaret.

    We haven’t been to NYC since the COVID pandemic.

  25. Visit Morocco.
  26. Take a repositioning trans-Atlantic cruise.
  27. Get rid of 5 big things – furniture, toys, tools

    The oak dresser I bought in Greenwich Village (NYC) in 1977, might have to go.

  28. Shampoo rugs.
  29. Visit some place out west – Seattle or Alaska, etc.
  30. Try 5 new restaurants.
  31. Go on a road trip.
  32. Redesign primary bathroom.

    The primary ensuite bathroom is rather basic.

  33. Landscape front yard.
  34. Get together with sister.
  35. Order new curtains for living room.

    The living room curtains need to be replaced with something a little more elegant — these can go in the primary bedroom.

  36. Paint or replace venetian blinds.
  37. Focus on entry window coverings.
  38. Take 3 Bible studies.
  39. Paint the entry hall.

    The entry hall walls are 2 stories tall and impeded by a staircase.

  40. Design and rebuild top of breakfront.
  41. Host 5 get-togethers.
  42. Finish painting trim in DS bedroom.
  43. Find new dermatologist.
  44. Stain interior wood doors.

    All doors are an orangish wood tone.

  45. Rejuvenate the deck.
  46. Clean up the marsh.
  47. Collect driftwood.
  48. Get new vanity for heron bathroom.

    The only bathroom with a tub needs a major upgrade.

  49. Repair dining room rug.
  50. Get a new music system.
  51. Visit 2 states where I’ve never been (not just driven through).
  52. Sort out my wardrobe and donate or get rid of 10 items.
  53. Have a dinner by candlelight.

    Can’t wait to celebrate a special dinner.

  54. Take a trail ride on horseback.
  55. Fix curtains in master bedroom.
  56. Visit Mount Rushmore.
  57. Visit Frank Lloyd Wright’s Falling Water. Southwestern PA
  58. Have ring appraised.
  59. Shred old files.
  60. Find tai chi on Eastern Shore.

    We have tai chied on vacation but I haven’t found any local practitioners yet.

  61. Clean up and organize old photos.
  62. Eat vegetarian for a week.
  63. Work on studio/office in back bedroom.
  64. Put outdoor shower at shore house.

    Once upon a time a temporary shower (brrrr) had been rigged up outside the laundry room.  I think we can do better.

  65. Install dual system heater/AC in master bedroom at shore house.
  66. See 5 theatrical productions.
  67. Carpet stair treads.

    The risers on the stairs are open.

  68. Visit Canada.
  69. Get a security camera.
  70. Paint and renovate laundry room.

    So far the only improvement I’ve made to the laundry is to switch out the lighting fixture.

  71. Drink a glass of water every morning for a month.
  72. Organize personal files.
  73. Set up a music system at the house.
  74. Paint the exterior of the house.

    We started the shed before the house to check the color.

  75. Visit 5 local thrift stores.
  76. Meet and remember 5 new people.
  77. Hang some art.

    I loved the gallery wall in our previous home.

  78. Take dance lessons.
  79. Paint trim in downstairs bedroom.
  80. Add shoe molding to downstairs.
  81. Outdoor shower at The Landing.

    The shower is installed here but the enclosure is still on the drawing board.

  82.  Repair and refresh dock.
  83.  Upgrade railings on back deck.

    The deck railings are basic.

  84.  Visit Tangier Island in the Chesapeake Bay
  85.  Paint one wall an outrageous color.
  86. Paint studio walls.
  87. Visit a lighthouse.

    Our nearest lighthouse is a beauty.

  88. Clean car headlights.
  89. Watch a meteor shower.
  90. Take a cruise to the Panama Canal.
  91.  Wear Shamrocks on St. Patrick’s Day.
  92.  Walk across the Chesapeake Bay Bridge.

    I’ve driven across more times than I can count.

  93.  Eat no sugar for a week.
  94.   Plant a dogwood tree at The Landing.
  95.   Buy a stranger a meal.
  96.   Travel first class.
  97.   Get rid of 10 pieces of clothing.
  98. Have living room Bergere chairs slipcovered.

    I have 2 chairs that I would like to have slipcovered.

  99. Get a boat.
  100.   Transplant my orchids.
  101. Private

Jo

January, 2024: Did It

January, 2024, was a really productive month.

  • Put away Christmas decorations.
  • Got started on gathering tax return information.
  • Resumed 2 Bible classes, tai chi, and tap dancing.

Here’s what I did in January:

  1. Throw a party.   With Sug’s help Charlie and I had a few people over to celebrate Coptic Christmas Eve and our trip to Egypt.

    Charlie in the clothing he bought at Abu Simbel.

    Unfortunately due to weather and illness we were fewer than we had hoped but we traded travel stories and ate up a storm.

    Both the Egyptian and non-Egyptian food were a hit at the party.

  2. Do something new and different.  On New Year’s Day Charlie and I traveled to Philadelphia to watch the 124th Annual Mummers Parade.  Although we have previously been to Philly, the Mummers Parade was a unique and unusual experience.

    The string bands feature brass, reeds, and percussion along with the strings.

    I recommend adding it to your Bucket List.

  3. Burn then discard all red candles.  I got rid of 5 red candles and 2 mosaic glass globes.

    A few more items to NOT put away this winter.

  4. Get living room ready to paint and assemble supplies.  I’ve chosen a new lighter color.  We’ll get started very soon.

    New color “Alabaster” on the left — old color “Revere Pewter” on the right.

  5.  See a movie.  I saw The Boys in the Boat about the USA crew team that won the 1936 Olympics in Germany.  I plan to read the book.  I also watched Groundhog Day at home for a class about making good decisions.
  6. Empty 2 shelves in master bedroom.  A real challenge.

    From this . . .

    to this.

    The real challenge — my travel shelf.

  7.  Read a book or play.  I read Dubliners by James Joyce which is very Irish and a challenge to read but warm with relationships. I also read The Boys in the Boat after seeing the movie (#5 above) which was rich in facts and details of the world in the 1930s.
  8. Wash living room curtains. I took down the curtains after the party but before starting to paint the living room.

    Freshly laundered curtains on a newly painted wall.

    They are pure linen so I washed and ironed them myself.

  9.  Pick a word to focus on for the month. My word: STEADFAST.
  10.  Write a goal list for February, 2024.

Jo

My Bucket List 2024

Last year (2023) we completed a couple of big items (and more than a few smaller ones) on MY bucket list. Charlie and I traveled to one of the most exotic places to date.

Egypt was more than we could have imagined.

This year it will be more of the same.

To that end here is my Bucket List: Items in grey have been on the list for awhile; items in blue have been accomplished.

  1. See the pyramids in Egypt –  We saw the pyramids and the sphynx, we rode camels, we cruised down the Nile.  And that ain’t all!

    Day 2 in Egypt draws to a close.

  2. Inspire somebody to do something great.  I have a friend who credits me with her impetus to do mission work which I think is great.

    A haven for the children of Santa Maria de Jesus, Guatemala.

    Recently she has upped her game and all but moved permanently to Guatemala. 

  3. Own my house.

    I have enjoyed living here over the past 27 years.

  4. Write a book and have it published — I don’t know what the actual subject might be but I think I would write a fictional story about life among the very wealthy.
  5. Visit the Louvre in France — I have been to the Louvre and have seen the Mona Lisa, Winged Victory, and Venus de Milo. 

    Nike of Samothrace — Winged Victory — in the Louvre Museum in Paris.

  6. Ride in a hot air balloon

    We landed in a newly-planted bean field.

    We enjoyed this sunrise trip on a glorious day in Maryland.

  7. Take a ride in a gondola in Venice.  We visited Venice in September, 2019.

    I have taken a gondola ride in Venice, Italy at sunset.

  8. Go on a cruise. We cruised from Baltimore Harbor to Bermuda and back on Royal Caribbean’s Enchantment of the Seas. We have another cruise planned for 2024.

    I’m always happy on the water.

  9. Audition for a movie — I would have to check the local casting calls.  Getting the part is not as important as auditioning.
  10. Own a beach house.

    The shore house.

    It’s not exactly a beach house but we’re fixing it up and it’s 2 miles from the beach.  Hoping to trade in #3 above for an actual waterfront home.

  11. Invent something — I’m hoping I could invent something that would be useful and bring in some cash.
  12. Have a million dollars — working on it.
  13. Go whale watching.

    Lots of options for this activity — need to decide on a destination.

  14. Buy a stranger a meal.  I’m not sure how to go about it except to just be brave and do it.
  15. Do something I know is reckless! I would love suggestions on what reckless thing other people would consider doing.  I’m thinking  of doing something like parasailing or paragliding. Charlie thinks I’m nuts.
  16. Fly in a helicopter. Charlie and I took a helicopter flight over the volcanoes on the Big Island of Hawaii.

    We flew over the Big Island.

  17. Read the Bible — I read the entire Bible in a year. Very inspirational and enlightening.  I continue to pursue this activity through classes.
  18. Save somebody’s life.  Who knows how and when an opportunity might arise.  I pray I’m up to it.
  19. Fly 1st class.  Saving my money for an upscale trip.
  20. Make and sell a product.
  21. See the Southern Cross in person.  We  saw  it  in  Puerto  Rico. 

    The Southern Cross — Crux — viewed from the island of Vieques.

  22. Visit Greece.  Scheduled for Fall, 2024 along with a cruise from Istanbul to Athens.
  23. Visit London. We visited London in September, 2018.  It was a wonderful trip. 

    Tower Bridge over the Thames River.

  24. See the Northern Lights — the Aurora Borealis — from IcelandWe had a wonderful trip to Iceland in October, 2021.  While we were warned not to expect being able to see the Northern Lights we actually viewed them on 2 separate nights. 

    I went to Iceland to see the elusive Aurora Borealis and mark it off my bucket list.

  25. Visit New Orleans.  We went in February in a week of perfect weather. 

    A golden statue near the French Market of Joan of Arc, the Maid of Orleans.

  26. Learn to Tango.  Charlie and I enjoyed a 6-week tango class.    Perhaps we’ll dance again in the future.

That’s 26 items from the original list.  I’ve decided to add a few more.

27.   Travel from St Louis, MO to Nashville, TN during the solar eclipse.  This trip is planned around the eclipse which will be happening in early April of 2024.

A full solar eclipse is eerily exciting.

This will be our second solar eclipse.

28.  Visit the luminescent bay in Vieques, Puerto Rico.  Charlie and I enjoyed our weeklong stay in Vieques where we went for the express purpose of seeing the best bioluminescence in the world.

Our kayaks were completely clear so we could see the luminescent microorganisms as we paddled through the bay.

29.  Dogsledding

30.  Police ride-along:  I signed up for a 6-hour-plus ride-along with our local county police force.  Very enlightening.  I highly recommend it if you qualify.  

31.  Pony penning in Chincoteague.

Wild ponies still roam the marshes of Assateague Island and swim across the channel to Chincoteague each year for veterinary services and auction.

32.  Mummers Parade in Philadelphia — A really fun day trip from Baltimore on January 1st.  Both Charlie and I had a great time. 

Men and women of all generations were cheerful in the new year.

Still adding to the list.

Jo

January, 2024: Do It

I have been hinting that sometime in the not to distant future Charlie and I will be moving from our home of over 2 decades.

I have enjoyed living here over the past 27 years.

It’s time to seriously start getting rid of things we would not want to pack up and move. (See #3 below.)  I’m hoping that each month this year I can accomplish a task that will lend itself to that philosophy.

I love a good fireworks display to welcome the New Year.

Now for my January Do-it list:

  1. Throw a party.   I have sent invitations for a Coptic Christmas Eve Party.

    I’ll be going with an Egyptian theme.

  2. Do something new and different.
  3. Burn then discard all red candles.  They are really my least favorite. Gotta start somewhere.

    The last time I used red candles was the Casablanca screening of 2019.

  4. Get living room ready to paint and assemble supplies.  I’ve chosen a new lighter color.
  5.  See a movie.
  6. Empty 2 shelves in master bedroom.  A real challenge.

    We have too many tchotchkes and books on display.

  7.  Read a book or play.
  8. Wash living room curtains. A tedious job that will help with #4 above.

    The curtains in the living room have to be taken down for painting anyway.

  9.  Pick a word to focus on for the month. My word: STEADFAST.
  10.  Write a goal list for February, 2024.

Jo

December, 2023: Processed

The very end of 2023 — hard to believe.  What a year!  Egypt, Florida, Vieques, parties, theatre, concerts, day trips — awesome.

Camels, pyramids, and the Sahara Desert were included in our Egypt experience.

In addition to the numbered list below:

  • with Charlie’s help I cleaned our self-clean oven.  It’s more difficult than it would seem.
  • My passport that I applied for last month arrived.  Mailed application 11/9/2023 and received passport 12/4/2023 without any expedited services.

    My new biometric passport.

  • attended my Bible study holiday social.

    It was all about the Christmas socks.

I didn’t try to challenge myself too much in December.  I just wanted to enjoy the season so here’s how I progressed on my typical list.

  1.  Celebrate Christmas. We decorated this year with multiple small trees and an Egyptian theme.

    Camels on the mantel, O my!

  2. Work on an inside project from my 101 in 1001 list.  I chose #84 which is  to unplug completely for a full day (no phone, internet, camera, TV). I didn’t miss much but I would not do it again.
  3.  Donate books to the library Book Swap.

    Lots of people brought really nice books to the library’s swap including me.

    I donated the books I have recently read to the library swap and added another group to a local charity. 10 altogether which brings my 101 in 1001 total to 31 (#14).

  4. Get rid of a pile of clutter from the master bedroom.  Seriously this was one of my most exigent tasks.  I attacked it early in the month and cleared up loads of papers, notes, and general clutter.
  5.  See a movie.  Wonka To prepare me for this new film I read the book (see #7 below), and watched the movies Charlie and the Chocolate Factory and Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factor at home.

    I enjoyed this musical film about dreaming.

    The newest movie, Wonka, is filled with British actors I’ve come to know from imported PBS dramas. It was totally different from the previous 2 chocolate factory movies.  I enjoyed the message that life is better when shared with others.

    I also saw Napoleon — 2 hours and 38 minutes — I liked it but I think any movie over 2 hours needs more editing.

  6.  Plan a January party.  I sent out invitations for a Coptic Christmas Eve party (January 6) so we could enjoy some of the best foods and hospitality of Egypt.

    We’ll try to make Turkish coffee like we enjoyed in Egypt.

  7.  Read a book. I read Charlie and the Chocolate Factory by Roald Dahl.  It only took a couple of days because: 1) it’s a children’s book; 2) it was truly engaging.

    Chocolate is always good!

    I tried not to focus on the yummy candy descriptions.

    I also read Shakespeare’s Antony and Cleopatra which I watched online in 2020.

  8. Attend a concert.  Early in the month the Columbia Orchestra presented Tales from the Woods,  a diverse music program which the audience and I very much enjoyed.

    We live in The Glade at the edge of the woods so I’m familiar with the scenery expressed in music.

    We concert-goers are being treated this season to conductor candidates of which we will help to choose one as the future maestro.

  9.  Pick a word to focus on for the month. My word: WONDER.
  10.  Write a Do-it list for January, 2024.

Jo

December, 2023: Objectives

December seems to arrive sooner every year; I must be getting old.

I’m not putting tags on my gifts this year to reduce the rummaging.

I had a productive November buying and wrapping gifts so I can more or less relax and enjoy the holidays.

Now for my December list of objectives:

  1.  Celebrate Christmas.

    Always love the house at Christmas time.

  2. Work on an inside project from my 101 in 1001 list.  Could be  the dollhouse, mudroom closet, basement, Mommie photos — so many choices, so little time.
  3.  Donate books to the library Book Swap.

    These books must be in excellent condition to be donated to the swap.

  4. Get rid of a pile of clutter from the master bedroom.
  5.  See a movie.  Wonka 

    A prequel of sorts to the other movies about Willie and his chocolate factory.

  6.  Plan a January party.  I’m thinking a Coptic Christmas Eve with an Egyptian theme.

    A plaque on the wall of the Coptic Christian Hanging Church in Cairo details the movement of the Holy Family in Egypt in the first century.

  7.  Read a book. Charlie and the Chocolate Factory by Roald Dahl.

    Roald Dahl has long been one of my favorite authors.

  8. Attend a concert.
  9.  Pick a word to focus on for the month. My word: WONDER.
  10.  Write a Do-it list for January, 2024.

Jo

November, 2023: Processed

We arrived home from our trip to Egypt after long flights from Cairo to London then to our local airport BWI (Baltimore).  We really had a grand time and met some interesting and congenial people.

We saw the ancient wonders and met the amiable people — we’ll never forget our time in Egypt.

As always I had a couple of other projects and activities that I worked on:

Now for my November list of objectives:

  1.  Apply for new passport.  I have duly prepared my application and mailed it to be processed.

    I had to submit my old passport in order to be issued a new one.

    I have been alerted that the Department of State has received my application and supporting materials.

  2.  Celebrated Thanksgiving.  Charlie and I had a quiet day alone eating our favorite foods including crab cakes (no turkey for us). We also did a little Christmas decorating.

    One small tree is dedicated to our puppy Dash.

  3.  Christmas gifts are wrapped, packed up, and readied for mail. I have everyone’s gifts purchased and wrapped.

    Wrapped and packed!

    Those that are to be shipped are ready for the journey.

  4. Get rid of a box of clutter from the basement.  I emptied one box and threw away most of its contents.

    A very useful tool.

    I consolidated all my art supplies including my beloved paint sprayer and all its myriad pieces which means one of the bins on the back of the kitchen island is now empty.  I’m on a roll.

  5.  See a movie.  I saw The Holdovers and Journey to Bethlehem at a local movie theatre.

    The Magi in the movie Journey to Bethlehem rode camels, but I believe the original Wise Men rode Arabian horses.

    Each film was very different from the other but I enjoyed them both.

  6. Bring down Christmas decorations that will go with this year’s theme.

    I added a little embellishment to the lead camel — his follower will be treated likewise.

    Charlie and I carried down loads of boxes and bins. My goal is to get rid of some things we never use — for example, string lights that don’t work.

  7.  Read a book.  I enjoyed Sharpe’s Prey by Bernard Cornwell, a Napoleonic era adventure tale about a British soldier who was raised from the ranks and commissioned an officer, a rare and thankless honor.

    I was first introduced to the Sharpe series by a British TV drama starring Sean Bean.

    Odd that 2 of my favorite authors have the last name Cornwell but are unrelated as far as I know.

  8. Bring down and shred old papers from the attic.  I shredded a huge pile of bank statements from accounts I no longer own.  Thankfully, now there is nothing to show — it’s history.
  9.  Pick a word to focus on for the month. My word: DREAM.
  10.  Write a goal list for December, 2023.

Jo

November, 2023: Objectives

We don’t return home from our trip to Egypt until the end of the first week of November.  I’m sure to have lots to report.

My camel’s name was Casanova — he loved posing for his closeup.

Looking at my list below, clearly my theme for November is “Get rid of it!”  And I’ll try.

The Red Wing stag usually shows up at this time of year.

Now for my November list of objectives:

  1.  Apply for new passport.

    A passport must be reapplied for every 10 years — a buffer of 6 months is generally advised for international travel.

  2.  Celebrate Thanksgiving.

    Crab cakes usually grace our Thanksgiving table.

  3.  Wrap, pack up, and mail Christmas gifts.

    Some of our gifts are mailed to the recipients.

  4. Get rid of a box of clutter from the basement.

    Our tiny basement has very little free floor space.

  5.  See a movie. Looks like a few good ones to try.
  6. Bring down Christmas decorations that will go with this year’s theme, Egypt.

    This year I’ll feature my crèche collection since it is a focus of Egyptian Christmas celebrations.

    (Last Christmas’ theme was Hawaii.)

  7.  Read a book.  Sharpe’s Prey by Bernard Cornwell.
  8.  Bring a box of old papers from attic and shred it.

    I always have a pile of papers to shred; I plan to focus on outdated items as well.

  9.  Pick a word to focus on for the month. My word: DREAM.
  10.  Write a goal list for December, 2023.

Jo